home remedy for ingrown hair on theigh without pulling it out

I don’t want to pull it out people keeping telling me that but I can because it on my theigh… can’t really look straight at and that’s what you gta do when you pull it out… its hurts I already tryed poping it lil blood and clear shit came out…that’s it I want it to go away cause my legs brush together a lot I work a lot and its painful to walk…fast remdys or any remedy is fine?